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Psychoanalyst<\/span>, psychiatrist, member of Psike Istanbul and International Psychoanalysis Association<\/span> (IPA). Completed his medical education at Dokuz Eylül University Faculty of Medicine. Completed his psychiatry specialization at Erenköy Mental Health<\/span> and Diseases Hospital. Works in private practice.<\/p>\n

The Silent Room:<\/strong><\/h4>\n

On the <\/strong>“<\/strong>pleasure<\/span> of waiting<\/strong>” <\/strong>and the <\/strong>“<\/strong>blessings of silence<\/span><\/strong>” <\/strong>as a state of passivity<\/span><\/strong><\/h4>\n

Michel Fain emphasizes that primary masochism<\/span><\/em> (Freud, 1924) is a part of normal psychic<\/span> development<\/span>. When the baby’s experience of passivity<\/span><\/em> while waiting for its mother<\/span> in a state of basic helplessness<\/span><\/em> (Hilflosigkeit<\/em>) (Freud, 1918) turns into an indefinite and nameless terror (Bion, 1924), irreparable traumas may occur. The passive position<\/span><\/em> ceases to be psychically investable. Is it possible for the baby to derive pleasure<\/span> from its experience during the waiting period that ends with the arrival of its mother<\/span>? If there is a passivity<\/span><\/em> that can be invested thanks to primary masochism<\/span><\/em>, which is possible with the psychic<\/span> work<\/span> and care<\/span> of the mother<\/span>, and thus can the development<\/span> of a waiting capacity<\/span> <\/em>that makes integration<\/span><\/em> possible be paved the way? If the mother<\/span> arrives and picks up her baby and the waiting is over and the time is not prolonged, the baby finds the breast<\/span> exactly where it is looking for it, at exactly the right moment. This experience of being at one with<\/em> the baby’s primary object<\/span> corresponds to the experience of the analyst<\/span><\/em> empathically understanding <\/em>the analysand<\/span>’s inner mental experiences in the session<\/span>. Within the analytical field, an analyst<\/span> seeks ways to mentally access the analysand<\/span>’s inner experiences. For the “analysand<\/span>, the experience of being understood empathically<\/em> opens the way for the “being at one with<\/em>” experience that will enable the unintegrated self-parts to be included in the integrated self-part and thus for the psychic<\/span> integration<\/span> of the analysand<\/span> in regression. For the analysand<\/span>, the experience of “being at one with<\/em>” can be possible at the moment when the analyst<\/span> is silent, as well as when the analyst<\/span> speaks. In this case<\/span>, the adjustment of the balance of the analyst<\/span>’s silence<\/span> and voice with its timing and duration comes to the fore as the basic element of the analytical function<\/span>. The experience of pleasure<\/span>\/displeasure evoked by waiting in the analyst<\/span>’s psyche<\/span> becomes a determining factor. In this presentation, all these processes operating at a deep psychic<\/span> level will be discussed in the light of the analyst<\/span>’s primary masochism<\/span>, passivity<\/span>, the feminine<\/span> position<\/span> based on receptivity<\/span>, and mainly through the contributions of Winnicottian metapsychology<\/span> and related theorists.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Psychoanalyst, psychiatrist, member of Psike Istanbul and International Psychoanalysis Association (IPA). Completed his medical education at Dokuz Eyl\u00fcl University Faculty of Medicine. 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